Chilling W!nTers

"Snow was falling,
so much like stars
filling the dark trees
that one could easily imagine
its reason for being was nothing more
than prettiness.” 

In Delhi this time , weather is so freezing . It's getting colder day by day . All of us enjoy sleeping inside blankets . I remember , in my school days i used to make many excuses to stay back at home . Ice-cream in winters is enjoyed completely even if we end up sneezing at last . Today i came across new thing - pan in which ice ball was rolled . Imagine how delicious it will be in chilling winters !!

Winter is the time for comfort, for good food and warmth, for the touch of a friendly hand and for a talk beside the fire . Its the time when we all sit in sun for hours without feeling hot , no trace of sweat . Makke ki Roti & Sarso ka Saag aaaaaah !! yummmy !! Hot Chocolate  fudge or hot Gulabjamun . 

October extinguished itself in a rush of howling winds and driving rain and November arrived, cold as frozen iron, with hard frosts every morning and icy drafts that bit at exposed hands and faces. December includes celebration of Christmas & New Year.

Recalling days of my school days , i remember that we used to wait for our winter vacations every year so that we can enjoy Christmas & New year nicely . Christmas was celebrated on a very large scale in my school . Santa used to give us chocolates & how can i forget the yummy chocolate cake . Yes , before enjoying all these we were told stories related to Christmas - its significance etc .
And celebration always ended up with song " We all wish you Merry Christmas & a very happy new year ".

“Spring passes and one remembers one's innocence.
Summer passes and one remembers one's exuberance.
Autumn passes and one remembers one's reverence.
Winter passes and one remembers one's perseverance.”

Then comes the New Year . New questions to be asked, embraced, and loved. Answers to be discovered and then lived in this transformative year of delight and self-discovery. Resolutions are made every year but very few of us follow them . 

lonely night

Alone sat a little girl
along the river side at night
listening to the sound of waves
watching the twinkling stars

All of a sudden she starts weeping
lost in her thoughts
surrounded by cold breeze
again she looked upon the sky
started talking to herself
"I wish there was an angle with me", she said .

World is not full of good people
her tears were very precious she knew
but she was helpless as they were not controlled
She was having no one to share what she feels
many people are there to share happiness
but only few take part in sad moments

Alone she was sitting in a corner
watching the clouds taking different pattern
in moonlight all things were quiet & calm
"stop crying" , she said to herself
Life was playing games with her
where she was unable to retrace her steps

Sometimes you just don't know
the reason of weeping
tears come by their own
you long for a shoulder to rest on
& a person to tell you things gonna be alright.

dream :)

" Dreams "
Word that makes you recall all the things you dreamt of : it may be bad or good , beautiful or ugly , fearful or fearless . According to wiki ,  Dreams are successions of images, ideas, emotions, and sensations that occur involuntarily in the mind during certain stages of sleep.Dreams can have varying natures, such as frightening, exciting, magical, purposeful,  melancholic, adventurous. The events in dreams are generally outside the control of the dreamer . 

When i was young i once dreamt of falling from my terrace . I was so scared that i woke up at midnight  but as soon as i realized that it was merely a dream i went back to my previous position . Loewenberg calls this dream a “red flag from your subconscious.” She believes this dream is common in people who are having a major life problem with work, relationships, or elsewhere. 

I once dreamt that i finally reached a chocolate factory . Wow !! What a delicious feeling it gave to me . I was surrounded by candies & also saw chocolate river flowing . Chocolate Chocolate everywhere but i got nothing to eat . Hehehheh !! My childhood fantasy i must say .

I don't remember anything magical that i saw but yes because i used to watch that " Shaka laka boom boom " , i once dreamt that i had that magical pencil with me & hence i was able to get everything that i sketched . Those days were cherish able .

Dreaming of your goal , your aims & thinking of steps to achieve it is something we all young people should do . Every great dream begins with a dreamer. Always remember, you have within you the strength, the patience, and the passion to reach for the stars to change the world.

Dreaming of fun with your friends or spending time with someone special in your dreams makes you feel great.The start of your day is good & you feel nice after seeing something positive in your dreams.

From Jammu & Kashmir to Sri Lanka , from Gujarat to Arunachal Pradesh i wish to cover the whole map of India as well as want to explore all the places of this world . I want to experience all the adventures of life like para sailing , paragliding , scuba diving , mountain climbing , bungee jumping , surfing . Imagine how exciting it will be to reach the highest point of unclimbed mountain , to fly like a free bird in air , to swim with sea animals deep inside the water . 

Life is a song - sing it. Life is a game - play it. Life is a challenge - meet it. Life is a dream - realize it. Life is a sacrifice - offer it. Life is love - enjoy it.

A GOOD IMAGE TO INTERPRET

Ghost

Ghost " BHOOOOOOOOOOOOT "   
Woohoooo !! I have heard that from 3 a.m. at mid night , they get active . In this period they are very powerful . They (demons, devils, negative energies, etc.) exist mainly in the Nether region (Bhuvarlok) and the Hell region (Pātāl). From there they also inhabit the Earth region (Bhūlok) and affect or possess human beings.

From the very first scary serial that i watched " Vo " and then "Aaahat". We used to make room dark by covering all the windows putting curtains on them. 

There is also a way for calling them by sitting in a dark room with all candles around . People sit with full arrangement with dice and all the list of alphabets around them . They ask questions and then the alphabets move which sounds impossible but once my cousin told me that she with her friends planned to do this in her hostel one night . They made all the arrangements and they asked their result & guess what they all got that percentage only which was told by that spirit .

There is a good spirit as well as a bad spirit also & think of those moment when the bad spirit disagree to go back to the place from where it came , that can create a very dangerous problem & then we have to take urgent help of various mantras . But if we come across a good spirit like spirit in the movie  "BHOOTNATH" then the case is very different , then the spirit will help us to do various things & will always help us in our needs . 

All of us might have heard about Halloween which is a yearly celebration observed in a number of countries on 31 October. Typical festive Halloween activities include trick-or-treating , attending costume parties, decorating, carving pumpkins into jack-o'-lanterns, lighting bonfires, apple bobbing, visiting haunted house attractions, playing pranks, telling scary stories and watching horror films. Halloween costumes are traditionally modeled after supernatural figures such as vampires, monsters, ghosts, skeletons, witches, and devils. I remember this time , in our campus someone was dressed like a ghost & was trying to scare people around by running towards them & saying      
 " Happy Halloween" .  

Holic

Today thought of talking about holic ( addiction of any thing or a substance ) . So let me start ALPHABETICALLY . 
  

Starting with being CHOCOHOLIC . I confess i am a very big chocoholic and i eat them getting engrossed completely in their delicious taste . I enjoy every bite and any kind of chocolate . heheheh !! Chocolate causes certain endocrine glands to secrete hormones that affect your feelings and behavior by making you happy. Therefore, it counteracts depression, in turn reducing the stress of depression. Your stress-free life helps you maintain a youthful disposition, both physically and mentally. So, eat lots of chocolate.

 "I’ve never met a chocolate I didn’t like."

Secondly comes DANCEAHOLIC. Dance is a type of art that generally involves movement of the body, often rhythmic and to music. It brings such joy to so many people, both the person dancing and the people watching.I will never understand this simple thing that how people can control their feet when the music is on .

This is something not possible for me .I love to dance on every DJ night that come across my way . I like to participate & enjoy every flash mob . When you dance, your purpose is not to get to a certain place on the floor. It's to enjoy each step along the way.

Now who isn't HUGAHOLIC?? Everybody needs a hug as it indicates support, comfort, and consolation, particularly where words are insufficient. A hug usually demonstrates affection and emotional warmth, sometimes arising from joy or happiness at meeting someone or seeing someone . 

PHOTOHOLIC : Taking selfie anytime with anything is becoming a new trend nowadays . Google Instagram's photos and scroll down the Facebook pages, I bet you'll surely be bombarded by various selfies picture  even Barrack Obama took selfie at Nelson Mandela's memorials at South Africa last December.  Breakfast selfie , selfie before party , selfie after party , selfie during party . GOSH !! everywhere selfie selfie & selfie . Taking limited selfies is not bad but taking unlimited selfies can create a problem sometimes . Imagine when a team looses a game & one of the team member says " Lets take a selfie". Dude such idiotic act  will create a big problem for sure.Photography is a fun way to express your creativity and selfie is one of it!

People nowadays go for online shopping which is very easy & convenient . They say i am not a SHOPAHOLIC , i am helping the economy . Women are considered shopaholic . My dad never do shopping with me . I trouble my mom a lot , she is the only one who visit each & every shop in search of something that i like . Keep calm & go shopping !

During winters most of us become SLEEPAHOLICS . Sometimes I'm so tired, I look down at what I'm wearing, and if it's comfortable enough to sleep in,i don't even care to change them . Sleeping in some of our lectures with our eyes open , sleeping putting our headphones with music on , sleeping on books while studying during exams , taking a  nap of 10 minutes  which always converts into an hour , sleeping even after drinking a cup of coffee . 

FROZEN

It is a tale of two sisters who loved each other very much , Lucy and Bella. Lucy had some magical power . She had the power of freezing anything. One day when they were playing together , Lucy by mistake hit her little sister on head . She was very afraid that Bella will recover or not and at the same time she was very sad because of her powers which was growing with her age . From that day,she was locked in a separate room .

Days passed like fire and after hearing the news of their parents death , they both were in great agony.Bella was confused and was angry because she thought that Lucy will never support her and will never show up . She was unknown of her powers  . She was disappointed when Lucy was still locked and never cared to meet her after the death of their parents   . She made new friends and she fell in love with a boy , Paul which she considered to be her true love.

Finally came the day when Lucy was declared as the Princess . She was supposed to handle the throne and protect all the people but unfortunately after she was declared as the princess , a misfortune happened which she was afraid will happen. She became angry because of something and everyone was aware of her powers , everyone called her “a monster”. She was very upset and so she decided to move to some place where she can be herself , where she will never cry , she will never be afraid of anything . She moved to mountains , away from everyone even from her sister because everyone considered as the culprit of the bad weather .

Bella was in dilemma. she didn’t knew what to do but finally she decided to go and find her sister which sounded very dangerous .Everyone told her not to go but she refused to hear anyone . She followed her sister and Paul followed her . She reached a mountain after travelling miles and saw a beautiful mansion of ice . When she entered in , she saw Lucy in a beautiful dress . Lucy warned her not to come inside , she told her she will never be accepted by anyone but Bella was adamant that she will not go alone . She will take Lucy with her home .

In the process of their argument , Lucy repeatedly told Bella to return back but she refused every time which made Lucy angry.  Lucy  freezed  Bella’s heart by mistake and then took her hands back and vanished from there but as words spoken cannot be taken back , her frozen heart was not easy to melt. Bella’s friend took her to a Doctor who told that only true love can melt this and can save her life . Day by Day she was growing pale as the flow of blood through her veins was flowing slowly.Her friend thought to visit Paul , he thought he could save her life as he loved him but nothing happened as Paul retraced his steps saying that he was after wealth . He was not concerned about her .

All were thinking what should be done to save Bella’s life . She was declared dead even when she was alive, locked in a room . Lucy came rushing hearing this news . I n the meantime , Bella was turning into statue of ice . When Lucy reached there and saw Bella’s statue of ice , she started crying by hugging her . After sometime her statue started melting and all the people gathered around became happy .

This story shows the real love of sisters .

 “For there is no friend like a sister

In calm or stormy weather;

To cheer one on the tedious way,

To fetch one if one goes astray,

To lift one if one totters down,

To strengthen whilst one stands”

overdose of life

Its strange but true that when we find all the answers of our life then god changes the questions.........!!!!!

We meet strangers , acquaintances . Some become good friends , some move like this only without bothering about anything .It is believed that we all have an aura surrounding all of us so  on one hand we get negative vibes from someone & on the other hand we get positive vibes .

Its strange that those people who promise to remain same forever are the first one to change .

Its strange that some people think too deeply while others doesn't care at all .

Its strange to know that only few people know the value of true friendship & true love , others just develops an illusion . They forget to value relationships & regret later.

Its strange how some friends say something in front & say the inverse in their back . Say everything in front , why to take the other route ?? God only knows....

Its so strange to look people change within seconds , not a day is taken by them . In fraction of seconds , whole work is done . They don't care that people are affected by their mood or not .

Its strange to see how friends become strangers . Only thing that doesn't change are memories .

Its strange to see how people develops misconception about something .

Its strange that it takes a minute to have a crush on someone , an hour to like & a day to love someone but it takes lifetime to forget someone.

Its strange that my bucket list is full of things but i have not reached half way through it .

Its strange that we do expectations even after getting hurt .

Its strange that little things matter a lot . A sorry can improve things , a hug can comfort you .

Life is about experiencing things which you haven't experienced yet .Answering  the questions left unanswered .

“It's so strange how life works: You want something and you wait and wait and feel like it's taking forever to come. Then it happens and it's over and all you want to do is curl back up in that moment before things changed.”

“Strange is our Situation Here Upon Earth.”

Token of LOVE

                       

  

                  "Sometimes the heart sees what is invisible to the eye."

Parent love is the greatest love in this world .  One of the greatest titles , and one of the biggest blessings in the world is to have parents to call mom and dad.We never know the love of a parent till we become parents ourselves.

Mother kept you inside for 9 months . Her arms are made of tenderness where we feel safe . She teaches us every lesson in her way , she is so loving & caring . She give support any & every time we need it . She makes you understand things . She makes your taste buds feel glad by serving you with yummy food . She gives you right direction when you are lost . 

No language can express the power, and beauty, and heroism, and majesty of a mother’s love. Mother had a large heart—a heart so large that everybody’s joys found welcome in it, and hospitable accommodation. Hundreds of dewdrops to greet the dawn, Hundreds of bees in the purple clover, Hundreds of butterflies on the lawn, But only one mother the wide world over. Dad is more attached to their daughters . My dad always protects me whenever my mom tries to scold me . He is the one who gives me chocolates & always comforts me . He says there are two kinds of people in the world: givers and takers. The takers may eat better, but the givers sleep better.He fulfilled my every wish .  A dad is someone who wants to catch you before you fall but instead picks you up, brushes you off, and lets you try again.  He is someone who holds you when you cry, scolds you when you break the rules, shines with pride when you succeed, and has faith in you even when you fail. Guru helps you to find the right path . He gives you light in complete darkness . He tells you that when one door closes the other opens . A true teacher would never tell you what to do. But he would give you the knowledge with which you could decide what would be best for you to do .  Gurur-Brahmaa Gurur-Vissnnur-Gururdevo Maheshvarah. Gurure sakshat Param Brahma Tasmai Shrii-Gurave Namah Our pets - like in my case its my dog - Bruno . Many of the qualities that come so effortlessly to dogs - loyalty, devotion, selflessness, unflagging optimism, unqualified love . He always welcomes me by wagging his tail . He always sits near me whenever i am sad or not in good mood , he plays with me . For you he might be just a part of your world but for him , you are his world so love your pets and care for them nicely . Friends can help each other. A true friend is someone who lets you have total freedom to be yourself - and especially to feel. Or, not feel. Whatever you happen to be feeling at the moment is fine with them. That's what real love amounts to - letting a person be what he really is.True friends are linked heart to heart without any social media.  Special one or the Right One with whom you can share your life with another, when his/her happiness is the only thing you want . Falling in love may be one of the greatest feelings ever. Relationships are the spice of life. They make us feel alive in a way that nothing else can. Two individuals showing care for each other by doing small acts for each other that demonstrate love and affection.Love is a force more formidable than any other. It is invisible - it cannot be seen or measured, yet it is powerful enough to transform you in a moment, and offer you more joy than any material possession could.Trust , understanding , faith , support , care is important . To find true love is difficult . A person who when looks into your eyes & say that everything gonna be alright and is always beside you to support you anytime , anywhere & by anything . “Darkness cannot drive out darkness: only light can do that. Hate cannot drive out hate: only love can do that.”

More Than A Feeling

There is a child inside every individual even when they grow up . This child behavior is shown in front of someone whom they are comfortable with or with the person whom they trust . Trusting your family because they know exactly what you are & yes they will always care for you no matter what . Having somebody to trust is a wonderful feeling. Knowing that you have somebody to talk to about anything you might have going on in your life is great. The feeling of being trusted might possibly be one of the best feelings you will ever know. It is great when you can help somebody when you are trusted just by having a talk with them about something they need help with or need advice on . All the world is made of faith, and trust, and pixie dust . As a small child, I felt in my heart two contradictory feelings, the horror of life and the ecstasy of life.

Emotions & feelings are central to our life . They helps us to balance our life .Being emotional has its own positive as well as negative effects . I have the bad habit of thinking too much . It is said that silence speaks more than words , I agree sometimes its true . But when feelings are not valued then its better to bottle them up somewhere inside you . So what you follow : head or heart ??

“You can close your eyes to the things you do not want to see, but you cannot close your heart to the things you do not want to feel."

Inner feeling - Intuition is knowing without knowing why you know , ability to connect with our inner self . It is commonly referred to as the sixth sense, a gut feeling which we feel to be correct though its hard to prove it . I didn't believed in intuitions until something happened with me that made me clear with this fact that intuitions are strong . There are different types of thoughts that arises in our mind .  

" Thoughts without intuitions are empty, intuitions without concepts are blind." 

Watch your thoughts for they become words.
Watch your words for they become actions.
Watch your actions for they become habits.
Watch your habits for they become your character.

Ghost ride............

One bright day she woke up , rubbing her eyes & after she tapped her alarm clock with one eye open she went to the washroom for brushing her teeth . She again took a 5 minute nap such a lazy brat she was . Then comes her mom shouting " Wake up !! dear . Come down & have your breakfast . " She got ready , came downstairs & gave a biscuit to her dog . Then she had her breakfast & headed towards her work after saying goodbye to her parents & tuffy .

She was very innocent , fun loving , friendly , caring . After coming from school , she watered her plants . She played with her dog " tuffy !! Come here . take this & run " she felt very good when he obeys her as if he is talking to her & understands whatever she says .

"Mom , I will be late . I am going to a birthday party . " she said .
"Ok . Take Care of yourself . " said her mother .

She purchased a gift & went to Neha's house . They enjoyed a lot . Friends , food , dance , soft drinks , cake all together gave a good feeling . Aftre the party , she went back home .
( Ting Tong ! Ting Tong !  bell rang . )

Tuffy came near the door & sniffed . When she came inside , he ran towards her .

" How was the party ? " inquired her mother .
" Fantabulous ! " she exclaimed with joy .
" Dad . Can we go on a long drive today ? Please . "
( She pleaded until he said yes . So they went on a long drive and at midnight when they were coming back home they saw something shocking . )

" Wait.........Wait ........ ! There is a barat going . see how they are dancing hahahaha ! " said she .
( Its 3 a.m. & marriage , this time ?? questions were going in her dad's mind )
When they passed that barat , suddenly the noise of music stoped . They turned back & saw that all the people that were dancing vanished .

" Omg !! Dad . something is fishy here . Increase your speed . " screamed she in a low voice .
( Inside she was repeating mantras & was very scared )

They got relaxed only when they reached home .
The subject of ghosts and evil spirits intrigues almost everyone. It is true that some people have been attacked by malevolent spirits. It is usually due to the person being afraid of what the spirit can do to him or her. Attacks happen when the evil spirit believes that it can overpower or bully a person.They necessarily don’t want to harm people.

"If you want to learn about spirits’ behaviour, look into your eyes and ask yourself, how would you behave when you are stuck emotionally and mentally in a place without a physical body."

Away from home

THINGS YOU WILL LEARN WHEN YOU ARE AWAY FROM HOME

Leaving home for work or studies always seems like an adventure but you later realize that home is home . 

Nothing is more comfortable than your bed

No environment suites you than your own room

Nothing is more yummy than mom's hand food

No one is more caring than your father

Nothing is more entertaining than your dog's play

1. You realize that your hometown is much closer to your heart than you ever thought . 

You start missing your home & just wanted to go to your place whenever possible . 

2. You start valuing money and appreciate what you already have .

You start managing everything & you become satisfied with what you have . You realize value of everything .

3. You learn all sorts of management skills

You are alone , away from your home your family your comfort zone so you have to become adaptable & have to become manager of your own . You have to manage things alone .

4. You learn to solve your own problems

No one comes at your beck & call so you have to make decisions of your own & you have to find solutions to your problems by your own .

5. You become independent: cooking, cleaning & taking care of yourself

You become independent . Keeping your clothes clean , having your meals at time & you have to take care of yourself .

6. You start to enjoy travelling

You like to travel to new places & likes to explore things .

7. You become more responsible

8. Although you have the freedom to party like crazy, you start doing it responsibly

9. You meet new people who challenge your opinions..

..and it helps develop your own.You make new friends , new connections .

10. You learn how to deal with the real world. You get to know the true faces of people

You better be aware of double face people . Believe in genuineness of a person rather than falseness .

11, You start valuing your relationships more

because the quality of your life is the quality of your relationships.

12. There is nothing warmer than a mother’s hug..

..and nothing truer than your father’s words

13. And when you finally earn and manage on your own, it makes you feel proud..

..and your parents prouder

14. It’s only then that you realize you have finally grown up!

Maturity is not when we start speaking about big things, it’s when we start understanding the small things. And putting up on your own teaches exactly that.

Destiny

“One love, one heart, one destiny.” 

In our course of life , we meet so many people but only few of them leaves a strong impression on us .  People don't cross our path by accident but there is a reason behind everything that happens . We meet people we are destined to meet , we talk to them , we share our thoughts , we made the bond of our friendship stronger . Let us follow our destiny, ebb and flow. Whatever may happen, we master fortune by accepting it  .

You cannot know what light is , if you have not experienced darkness . You couldn't taste happiness if you have not tasted sadness . Right doesn't exist without left . Experience is necessary  . We realize things when we go through it once , when we feel it once . 

We get only one life to live , love & die . Therefore , I pray to almighty that I meet only those people who wont leave me with memories but fulfill their promise of staying by my side forever & ever . Everything changes but memories remain the same . Like always i will say " Memories never die" . Even if we try to close the chapter , it comes with more force on our mind . 

I don't know how many of you read my blog but there is something inside that pushes me to write ,  so i pick a random topic & continue to write . Hehehehhe !! Coming back to destiny , may i ask how many of us believes in it ?? 

People prepare so hard for competitive exams but only some get selected & remaining ones say we worked hard but may be it wasn't in my destiny . There is something known as destiny that plays a vital role  .  The very course of event that I have described will most likely happen to somebody in the world . Their destiny will not be something they chose .   Lets see how our kismat connection works out including how many people we meet , depart & then make our bond stronger with . 

The factors that form a person's fate : 

A person's fate is decided by a complex combination of conditions and factors. Some of them are already decided at the time of a person’s birth and some of them come into play later and shape the course further. As we all know, Romeo and Juliet is a tragic story of romance. Romeo and Juliet's death was a result of many misfortunes, but they were mostly victims of the society in which they lived, malignant fate, and their own passions. Thus, fate is undoubtedly the most responsible influence for the couple's heartbreaking tragedy.