More Than A Feeling

There is a child inside every individual even when they grow up . This child behavior is shown in front of someone whom they are comfortable with or with the person whom they trust . Trusting your family because they know exactly what you are & yes they will always care for you no matter what . Having somebody to trust is a wonderful feeling. Knowing that you have somebody to talk to about anything you might have going on in your life is great. The feeling of being trusted might possibly be one of the best feelings you will ever know. It is great when you can help somebody when you are trusted just by having a talk with them about something they need help with or need advice on . All the world is made of faith, and trust, and pixie dust . As a small child, I felt in my heart two contradictory feelings, the horror of life and the ecstasy of life.

Emotions & feelings are central to our life . They helps us to balance our life .Being emotional has its own positive as well as negative effects . I have the bad habit of thinking too much . It is said that silence speaks more than words , I agree sometimes its true . But when feelings are not valued then its better to bottle them up somewhere inside you . So what you follow : head or heart ??

“You can close your eyes to the things you do not want to see, but you cannot close your heart to the things you do not want to feel."

Inner feeling - Intuition is knowing without knowing why you know , ability to connect with our inner self . It is commonly referred to as the sixth sense, a gut feeling which we feel to be correct though its hard to prove it . I didn't believed in intuitions until something happened with me that made me clear with this fact that intuitions are strong . There are different types of thoughts that arises in our mind .  

" Thoughts without intuitions are empty, intuitions without concepts are blind." 

Watch your thoughts for they become words.
Watch your words for they become actions.
Watch your actions for they become habits.
Watch your habits for they become your character.

Ghost ride............

One bright day she woke up , rubbing her eyes & after she tapped her alarm clock with one eye open she went to the washroom for brushing her teeth . She again took a 5 minute nap such a lazy brat she was . Then comes her mom shouting " Wake up !! dear . Come down & have your breakfast . " She got ready , came downstairs & gave a biscuit to her dog . Then she had her breakfast & headed towards her work after saying goodbye to her parents & tuffy .

She was very innocent , fun loving , friendly , caring . After coming from school , she watered her plants . She played with her dog " tuffy !! Come here . take this & run " she felt very good when he obeys her as if he is talking to her & understands whatever she says .

"Mom , I will be late . I am going to a birthday party . " she said .
"Ok . Take Care of yourself . " said her mother .

She purchased a gift & went to Neha's house . They enjoyed a lot . Friends , food , dance , soft drinks , cake all together gave a good feeling . Aftre the party , she went back home .
( Ting Tong ! Ting Tong !  bell rang . )

Tuffy came near the door & sniffed . When she came inside , he ran towards her .

" How was the party ? " inquired her mother .
" Fantabulous ! " she exclaimed with joy .
" Dad . Can we go on a long drive today ? Please . "
( She pleaded until he said yes . So they went on a long drive and at midnight when they were coming back home they saw something shocking . )

" Wait.........Wait ........ ! There is a barat going . see how they are dancing hahahaha ! " said she .
( Its 3 a.m. & marriage , this time ?? questions were going in her dad's mind )
When they passed that barat , suddenly the noise of music stoped . They turned back & saw that all the people that were dancing vanished .

" Omg !! Dad . something is fishy here . Increase your speed . " screamed she in a low voice .
( Inside she was repeating mantras & was very scared )

They got relaxed only when they reached home .
The subject of ghosts and evil spirits intrigues almost everyone. It is true that some people have been attacked by malevolent spirits. It is usually due to the person being afraid of what the spirit can do to him or her. Attacks happen when the evil spirit believes that it can overpower or bully a person.They necessarily don’t want to harm people.

"If you want to learn about spirits’ behaviour, look into your eyes and ask yourself, how would you behave when you are stuck emotionally and mentally in a place without a physical body."

Away from home

THINGS YOU WILL LEARN WHEN YOU ARE AWAY FROM HOME

Leaving home for work or studies always seems like an adventure but you later realize that home is home . 

Nothing is more comfortable than your bed

No environment suites you than your own room

Nothing is more yummy than mom's hand food

No one is more caring than your father

Nothing is more entertaining than your dog's play

1. You realize that your hometown is much closer to your heart than you ever thought . 

You start missing your home & just wanted to go to your place whenever possible . 

2. You start valuing money and appreciate what you already have .

You start managing everything & you become satisfied with what you have . You realize value of everything .

3. You learn all sorts of management skills

You are alone , away from your home your family your comfort zone so you have to become adaptable & have to become manager of your own . You have to manage things alone .

4. You learn to solve your own problems

No one comes at your beck & call so you have to make decisions of your own & you have to find solutions to your problems by your own .

5. You become independent: cooking, cleaning & taking care of yourself

You become independent . Keeping your clothes clean , having your meals at time & you have to take care of yourself .

6. You start to enjoy travelling

You like to travel to new places & likes to explore things .

7. You become more responsible

8. Although you have the freedom to party like crazy, you start doing it responsibly

9. You meet new people who challenge your opinions..

..and it helps develop your own.You make new friends , new connections .

10. You learn how to deal with the real world. You get to know the true faces of people

You better be aware of double face people . Believe in genuineness of a person rather than falseness .

11, You start valuing your relationships more

because the quality of your life is the quality of your relationships.

12. There is nothing warmer than a mother’s hug..

..and nothing truer than your father’s words

13. And when you finally earn and manage on your own, it makes you feel proud..

..and your parents prouder

14. It’s only then that you realize you have finally grown up!

Maturity is not when we start speaking about big things, it’s when we start understanding the small things. And putting up on your own teaches exactly that.

Destiny

“One love, one heart, one destiny.” 

In our course of life , we meet so many people but only few of them leaves a strong impression on us .  People don't cross our path by accident but there is a reason behind everything that happens . We meet people we are destined to meet , we talk to them , we share our thoughts , we made the bond of our friendship stronger . Let us follow our destiny, ebb and flow. Whatever may happen, we master fortune by accepting it  .

You cannot know what light is , if you have not experienced darkness . You couldn't taste happiness if you have not tasted sadness . Right doesn't exist without left . Experience is necessary  . We realize things when we go through it once , when we feel it once . 

We get only one life to live , love & die . Therefore , I pray to almighty that I meet only those people who wont leave me with memories but fulfill their promise of staying by my side forever & ever . Everything changes but memories remain the same . Like always i will say " Memories never die" . Even if we try to close the chapter , it comes with more force on our mind . 

I don't know how many of you read my blog but there is something inside that pushes me to write ,  so i pick a random topic & continue to write . Hehehehhe !! Coming back to destiny , may i ask how many of us believes in it ?? 

People prepare so hard for competitive exams but only some get selected & remaining ones say we worked hard but may be it wasn't in my destiny . There is something known as destiny that plays a vital role  .  The very course of event that I have described will most likely happen to somebody in the world . Their destiny will not be something they chose .   Lets see how our kismat connection works out including how many people we meet , depart & then make our bond stronger with . 

The factors that form a person's fate : 

A person's fate is decided by a complex combination of conditions and factors. Some of them are already decided at the time of a person’s birth and some of them come into play later and shape the course further. As we all know, Romeo and Juliet is a tragic story of romance. Romeo and Juliet's death was a result of many misfortunes, but they were mostly victims of the society in which they lived, malignant fate, and their own passions. Thus, fate is undoubtedly the most responsible influence for the couple's heartbreaking tragedy.