More Than A Feeling

There is a child inside every individual even when they grow up . This child behavior is shown in front of someone whom they are comfortable with or with the person whom they trust . Trusting your family because they know exactly what you are & yes they will always care for you no matter what . Having somebody to trust is a wonderful feeling. Knowing that you have somebody to talk to about anything you might have going on in your life is great. The feeling of being trusted might possibly be one of the best feelings you will ever know. It is great when you can help somebody when you are trusted just by having a talk with them about something they need help with or need advice on . All the world is made of faith, and trust, and pixie dust . As a small child, I felt in my heart two contradictory feelings, the horror of life and the ecstasy of life.

Emotions & feelings are central to our life . They helps us to balance our life .Being emotional has its own positive as well as negative effects . I have the bad habit of thinking too much . It is said that silence speaks more than words , I agree sometimes its true . But when feelings are not valued then its better to bottle them up somewhere inside you . So what you follow : head or heart ??

“You can close your eyes to the things you do not want to see, but you cannot close your heart to the things you do not want to feel."

Inner feeling - Intuition is knowing without knowing why you know , ability to connect with our inner self . It is commonly referred to as the sixth sense, a gut feeling which we feel to be correct though its hard to prove it . I didn't believed in intuitions until something happened with me that made me clear with this fact that intuitions are strong . There are different types of thoughts that arises in our mind .  

" Thoughts without intuitions are empty, intuitions without concepts are blind." 

Watch your thoughts for they become words.
Watch your words for they become actions.
Watch your actions for they become habits.
Watch your habits for they become your character.

Ghost ride............

One bright day she woke up , rubbing her eyes & after she tapped her alarm clock with one eye open she went to the washroom for brushing her teeth . She again took a 5 minute nap such a lazy brat she was . Then comes her mom shouting " Wake up !! dear . Come down & have your breakfast . " She got ready , came downstairs & gave a biscuit to her dog . Then she had her breakfast & headed towards her work after saying goodbye to her parents & tuffy .

She was very innocent , fun loving , friendly , caring . After coming from school , she watered her plants . She played with her dog " tuffy !! Come here . take this & run " she felt very good when he obeys her as if he is talking to her & understands whatever she says .

"Mom , I will be late . I am going to a birthday party . " she said .
"Ok . Take Care of yourself . " said her mother .

She purchased a gift & went to Neha's house . They enjoyed a lot . Friends , food , dance , soft drinks , cake all together gave a good feeling . Aftre the party , she went back home .
( Ting Tong ! Ting Tong !  bell rang . )

Tuffy came near the door & sniffed . When she came inside , he ran towards her .

" How was the party ? " inquired her mother .
" Fantabulous ! " she exclaimed with joy .
" Dad . Can we go on a long drive today ? Please . "
( She pleaded until he said yes . So they went on a long drive and at midnight when they were coming back home they saw something shocking . )

" Wait.........Wait ........ ! There is a barat going . see how they are dancing hahahaha ! " said she .
( Its 3 a.m. & marriage , this time ?? questions were going in her dad's mind )
When they passed that barat , suddenly the noise of music stoped . They turned back & saw that all the people that were dancing vanished .

" Omg !! Dad . something is fishy here . Increase your speed . " screamed she in a low voice .
( Inside she was repeating mantras & was very scared )

They got relaxed only when they reached home .
The subject of ghosts and evil spirits intrigues almost everyone. It is true that some people have been attacked by malevolent spirits. It is usually due to the person being afraid of what the spirit can do to him or her. Attacks happen when the evil spirit believes that it can overpower or bully a person.They necessarily don’t want to harm people.

"If you want to learn about spirits’ behaviour, look into your eyes and ask yourself, how would you behave when you are stuck emotionally and mentally in a place without a physical body."

Away from home

THINGS YOU WILL LEARN WHEN YOU ARE AWAY FROM HOME

Leaving home for work or studies always seems like an adventure but you later realize that home is home . 

Nothing is more comfortable than your bed

No environment suites you than your own room

Nothing is more yummy than mom's hand food

No one is more caring than your father

Nothing is more entertaining than your dog's play

1. You realize that your hometown is much closer to your heart than you ever thought . 

You start missing your home & just wanted to go to your place whenever possible . 

2. You start valuing money and appreciate what you already have .

You start managing everything & you become satisfied with what you have . You realize value of everything .

3. You learn all sorts of management skills

You are alone , away from your home your family your comfort zone so you have to become adaptable & have to become manager of your own . You have to manage things alone .

4. You learn to solve your own problems

No one comes at your beck & call so you have to make decisions of your own & you have to find solutions to your problems by your own .

5. You become independent: cooking, cleaning & taking care of yourself

You become independent . Keeping your clothes clean , having your meals at time & you have to take care of yourself .

6. You start to enjoy travelling

You like to travel to new places & likes to explore things .

7. You become more responsible

8. Although you have the freedom to party like crazy, you start doing it responsibly

9. You meet new people who challenge your opinions..

..and it helps develop your own.You make new friends , new connections .

10. You learn how to deal with the real world. You get to know the true faces of people

You better be aware of double face people . Believe in genuineness of a person rather than falseness .

11, You start valuing your relationships more

because the quality of your life is the quality of your relationships.

12. There is nothing warmer than a mother’s hug..

..and nothing truer than your father’s words

13. And when you finally earn and manage on your own, it makes you feel proud..

..and your parents prouder

14. It’s only then that you realize you have finally grown up!

Maturity is not when we start speaking about big things, it’s when we start understanding the small things. And putting up on your own teaches exactly that.

Destiny

“One love, one heart, one destiny.” 

In our course of life , we meet so many people but only few of them leaves a strong impression on us .  People don't cross our path by accident but there is a reason behind everything that happens . We meet people we are destined to meet , we talk to them , we share our thoughts , we made the bond of our friendship stronger . Let us follow our destiny, ebb and flow. Whatever may happen, we master fortune by accepting it  .

You cannot know what light is , if you have not experienced darkness . You couldn't taste happiness if you have not tasted sadness . Right doesn't exist without left . Experience is necessary  . We realize things when we go through it once , when we feel it once . 

We get only one life to live , love & die . Therefore , I pray to almighty that I meet only those people who wont leave me with memories but fulfill their promise of staying by my side forever & ever . Everything changes but memories remain the same . Like always i will say " Memories never die" . Even if we try to close the chapter , it comes with more force on our mind . 

I don't know how many of you read my blog but there is something inside that pushes me to write ,  so i pick a random topic & continue to write . Hehehehhe !! Coming back to destiny , may i ask how many of us believes in it ?? 

People prepare so hard for competitive exams but only some get selected & remaining ones say we worked hard but may be it wasn't in my destiny . There is something known as destiny that plays a vital role  .  The very course of event that I have described will most likely happen to somebody in the world . Their destiny will not be something they chose .   Lets see how our kismat connection works out including how many people we meet , depart & then make our bond stronger with . 

The factors that form a person's fate : 

A person's fate is decided by a complex combination of conditions and factors. Some of them are already decided at the time of a person’s birth and some of them come into play later and shape the course further. As we all know, Romeo and Juliet is a tragic story of romance. Romeo and Juliet's death was a result of many misfortunes, but they were mostly victims of the society in which they lived, malignant fate, and their own passions. Thus, fate is undoubtedly the most responsible influence for the couple's heartbreaking tragedy.

Hinglish Post :p HOSTEL FUN

Life me hostel k din ek baar jeena chahiye
Ye cheese miss nahi kerni chahiye  ,
Subah late se jaagna
aur fir college k liye bhagna .  

Free lecture me aa k room me sona
mess ka khana dekh k ghar ki yaad aana , 
phate hue jokes maarna
aur fir "Hasna tha " ye bolker zor se hasna . 

Vo mid night maggi ka taste
jaha ek spoon b na jata waste .
Raat me kisika b darwaza knock kerk bhaagne ka fun
aur " result aa gya " aisa kehne k baad sabka udha hua expression .

Vo dosto k B'day ki raat
jiski rehti h bahut ultimate baat , 
face me cake ka massage toh hota hi h
B'day bumps k sath water fight b hoti h .

Full volume pe gana bajana 
aur chilla k sath me khud k effects daalna ,
Khub pics khichwana
aur fir sath me sAbka dance krna .

Aamne - samne baith k watsapp kerna
different smileys k sath khelna ,
Hostel - Our second home
titled home away from home .

Asli maza toh DJ night me aata h 
jb let it rain over me bajta h , 
Lungi dance me SRK  ka step kerna 
aur dhatin nach me shahid ko copy kerne ki koshish kerna .
Yo ! Yo ! Honey Singh !! kehte huye paseena bahana
Aur fir hostel pahuch k thanda pani peena .

DJ NIGHT FUN !!

watch it (y)

This a Random blog with Random pics which i thought of sharing with you people as i found some of them really cute & some are funny . So have a look !!

See the face of puppy while he comes up & further out of the box  ( He is like Aaaaaaaaaah !! finally i am out . Now i can breath nicely )  hehehehe !!

How sweet !! A bird is feeding a dog ;) How can you miss this thing :p 

Cat trying to get out of the shoe . Poor cat , think of the smell inside it guys :p 

Animation of vegetables waving with a smile too wide :D 

Wait for the LAST expression of this baby . I bet you can't predict it :p 

Awwwwwwwww!! Last but not the least :p This pic reminds me of my dog when he nods his head :)

# muaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaah # love him :* 

A creation

It is said that Non - verbal communication is effective than verbal . She was emotional & very expressive . She used facial expressions & body language to express her emotions . So whats wrong in being emotional ?? We are not robots afterall , we are social beings . 

She cared without thinking about receiving anything in return . She expected & got hurt but then she expected again because sometimes we are helpless , we just can't do things that we decided to do . An excellent book that discusses the differences between men and women is called, Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus.  In this book, it states that, “Men and women generally are unaware that they have different emotional needs”.  Women want their feelings to be recognized.  They want to feel loved and appreciated every day.  Their primary emotional needs are caring, understanding, respect, devotion, validation and reassurance.

Life was not easy for her. Some were kind but some were cruel to her . People didn't valued the bond of friendship , they broke the trust , they took everything for granted , they took everything as a joke & played with the feelings but she decided to keep calm & be strong because this virtual world had many real problems . She wept silently as there were very few people who really cared & valued things . There were very few people with whom she could share things & who understood her . 

She believed that “The best and most beautiful things in the world cannot be seen or even touched. They must be felt with the heart”  . So she gave importance to feelings . She tried to bottle up all  her pain & every time  wore a smile . One can be the master of what one does, but never of what one feels so she always followed her heart . Every woman's heart  has different instructions . They are written through her eyes , in her smile , through her actions & in her tears . 

StRaNgE FeSTiValS !!

Festivals are mainly celebrated to have fun & they provide entertainment .  Its always fun to throw things on our friends .Whether it be a pillow , snow balls , paper balls , water : anything can do . Below are few festivals where people throw things aiming at each other without hurting them . They enjoy to their fullest .

Starting with our own country , India .

GULAL THROWING FESTIVAL (Holi )

In this festival we throw gulal ( coloured powder ) on each other .  Holi is the time to develop understanding and love for each other. Here, is a platform for you all to renew your friendship and to express heartiest love . On this day bhaang is specially prepared . People have fun by making each other look as different & funny as possible . They sing & dance on  crazy songs like rang barse or balam pichkari . In our society we used to have a common gathering known as " Holi Milan " on this day . We used to have lot of frolic by throwing water through pichkari on each other . 

GRAPE THROWING FESTIVAL (La Raima )

From this picture , we can understand the real fun of celebrating this .The Spanish sure do love their wine. The grape throwing festival dates back to the 1930s and was created to celebrate the end of the harvest. The actual festival itself is called "La Raima" . To put it into perspective, 90 tonnes of grapes are dumped into the town ready to be picked up and launched by the huge crowd of locals and tourists. Grapes Grapes everywhere not a grape to eat hehhehe.....!! 

TOMATO THROWING FESTIVAL ( la Tomatina )

 It brings in crowds of up to 30,000 people to the tiny village of Bunol in Valencia (which only hold 9,000 locals). To compliment all the tomatoes flying around, music, fireworks and even a parade round out the festivities which continue long into the night.This festival is there in the movie "Zindagi Na Milegi Dobara" : a magnificent movie i must say . You must watch it & then you will be able to feel the fun they have in throwing tomatoes on each other. Tomatoes from left , from right , from top actually from every possible direction tomatoes are thrown .

ORANGE THROWING FESTIVAL

Its hard to imagine but yes there is this kind of festival also in which people throw oranges on each other . Prepare for a food fight! The infamous orange throwing festival takes place in the Italian city of Ivera .You'd have to be throwing an orange pretty damn hard on someone.

In modern times, teams compete in the festival, indeed there are often intense rivals at play. If you want to throw oranges at people you have to enlist in one of the local teams. Tourists / spectators are not allowed to throw oranges at anyone and if they are wearing a red hat, are promised not be harmed so there is dress code or something like that .

Heart to heart ;)

God's got a twisted sense of humour........!!!!

An ardourous and horizontal voyage is what life is, it is said, cause things do get messed up a little along the way but stuff eventually gets sorted out and at the end, death allows you a release as sweet as can be, BUT what happens when you're stuck ??  Give it a thought .

Recently i saw The Fault In Our Stars- Such a beautiful movie it is. In movies you see love at first sight or things like this happens but very soon you realize that in the real world there aren’t always fairy tale endings, and that any guarantee of “happily ever after” must begin with you and in the process a sense of serenity is born of acceptance. Its truly very difficult to get true love in life & yes i believe that people who get it are very lucky.Getting someone who loves you makes your life worth living & no doubt beautiful. In the end remember " Loyal love is always better than Royal Love."

You Will Learn Lessons.You are enrolled in a full-time informal school called Life.Expectations hurt but then also we do not learn not to expect. Sometimes a hug works when  words are not enough to express your feelings.

One thing I will never understand is that Why do people care to think What other's will 

think  before doing anything ?  Do what your heart says . :) 

There may come a time, a time in everyone's life
where nothing seems to go your way
where nothing seems to turn out right
there may come a time, you just cant seem to find your way
for every door you walk on to, seems like they get slammed in your face
that's when you need someone, someone that you can call.

I believe there are little droplets of untouched part in everybody’s life.

You know a memory that only you can have

A feeling that only you can remember

A place that brings a kind of emotion that can never be expressed.

These little pearls are so important to us don’t you think?

They inspire us to write, to create, to think, to paint, to experience poetry,

to feel the music or to simply smile.

The exact sequence of a particular memory gives such pleasure

It always keeps you in your wonder mood.

The sequence of these incidents in the memory cannot change of course.

It is like the little box of assorted things that you collected when you were a school kid.

It was so important to have the whole collection.

Everyday you open the box to check if everything is there.

You have your favourites there too.

The ones that should never be lost.

But they did.

You lost your favourite ones to be replaced by new ones.

And then there comes a time

After very many years your old favourite thought shows up.

Your lost memory comes back.

A mixture of old and new.

A poetry in mind.

A wave in creation.

A beautiful mind, indeed beautiful . Memories never die !! They remain with us forever & forever . I believe that memories should always be treasured . They are only thing that doesn't change when everything else does . I always cherish my memories , time spent with my friends including all the events that took place . ;)