It is said that Non - verbal communication is effective than verbal . She was emotional & very expressive . She used facial expressions & body language to express her emotions . So whats wrong in being emotional ?? We are not robots afterall , we are social beings .
She cared without thinking about receiving anything in return . She expected & got hurt but then she expected again because sometimes we are helpless , we just can't do things that we decided to do . An excellent book that discusses the differences between men and women is called, Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus. In this book, it states that, “Men and women generally are unaware that they have different emotional needs”. Women want their feelings to be recognized. They want to feel loved and appreciated every day. Their primary emotional needs are caring, understanding, respect, devotion, validation and reassurance.
Life was not easy for her. Some were kind but some were cruel to her . People didn't valued the bond of friendship , they broke the trust , they took everything for granted , they took everything as a joke & played with the feelings but she decided to keep calm & be strong because this virtual world had many real problems . She wept silently as there were very few people who really cared & valued things . There were very few people with whom she could share things & who understood her .
She believed that “The best and most beautiful things in the world cannot be seen or even touched. They must be felt with the heart” . So she gave importance to feelings . She tried to bottle up all her pain & every time wore a smile . One can be the master of what one does, but never of what one feels so she always followed her heart . Every woman's heart has different instructions . They are written through her eyes , in her smile , through her actions & in her tears .
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