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Friday, 19 September 2014

overdose of life

Its strange but true that when we find all the answers of our life then god changes the questions.........!!!!!

We meet strangers , acquaintances . Some become good friends , some move like this only without bothering about anything .It is believed that we all have an aura surrounding all of us so  on one hand we get negative vibes from someone & on the other hand we get positive vibes .

Its strange that those people who promise to remain same forever are the first one to change .

Its strange that some people think too deeply while others doesn't care at all .

Its strange to know that only few people know the value of true friendship & true love , others just develops an illusion . They forget to value relationships & regret later.

Its strange how some friends say something in front & say the inverse in their back . Say everything in front , why to take the other route ?? God only knows....

Its so strange to look people change within seconds , not a day is taken by them . In fraction of seconds , whole work is done . They don't care that people are affected by their mood or not .

Its strange to see how friends become strangers . Only thing that doesn't change are memories .

Its strange to see how people develops misconception about something .

Its strange that it takes a minute to have a crush on someone , an hour to like & a day to love someone but it takes lifetime to forget someone.

Its strange that my bucket list is full of things but i have not reached half way through it .


Its strange that we do expectations even after getting hurt .


Its strange that little things matter a lot . A sorry can improve things , a hug can comfort you .

Life is about experiencing things which you haven't experienced yet .Answering  the questions left unanswered .


“It's so strange how life works: You want something and you wait and wait and feel like it's taking forever to come. Then it happens and it's over and all you want to do is curl back up in that moment before things changed.”

“Strange is our Situation Here Upon Earth.”

Monday, 15 September 2014

Token of LOVE

                       



  




                  "Sometimes the heart sees what is invisible to the eye."


Parent love is the greatest love in this world .  One of the greatest titles , and one of the biggest blessings in the world is to have parents to call mom and dad.We never know the love of a parent till we become parents ourselves.

Mother kept you inside for 9 months . Her arms are made of tenderness where we feel safe . She teaches us every lesson in her way , she is so loving & caring . She give support any & every time we need it . She makes you understand things . She makes your taste buds feel glad by serving you with yummy food . She gives you right direction when you are lost . 

No language can express the power, and beauty, and heroism, and majesty of a mother’s love. Mother had a large heart—a heart so large that everybody’s joys found welcome in it, and hospitable accommodation.
Hundreds of dewdrops to greet the dawn,
Hundreds of bees in the purple clover,
Hundreds of butterflies on the lawn,
But only one mother the wide world over.

Dad is more attached to their daughters . My dad always protects me whenever my mom tries to scold me . He is the one who gives me chocolates & always comforts me . He says there are two kinds of people in the world: givers and takers. The takers may eat better, but the givers sleep better.He fulfilled my every wish . 

A dad is someone who
wants to catch you before you fall
but instead picks you up,
brushes you off,
and lets you try again. 
He is someone who
holds you when you cry,
scolds you when you break the rules,
shines with pride when you succeed,
and has faith in you even when you fail.


Guru helps you to find the right path . He gives you light in complete darkness . He tells you that when one door closes the other opens . A true teacher would never tell you what to do. But he would give you the knowledge with which you could decide what would be best for you to do . 
Gurur-Brahmaa Gurur-Vissnnur-Gururdevo Maheshvarah.
Gurure sakshat Param Brahma Tasmai Shrii-Gurave Namah

Our pets - like in my case its my dog - Bruno . 
Many of the qualities that come so effortlessly to dogs - loyalty, devotion, selflessness, unflagging optimism, unqualified love . He always welcomes me by wagging his tail . He always sits near me whenever i am sad or not in good mood , he plays with me . For you he might be just a part of your world but for him , you are his world so love your pets and care for them nicely .



Friends can help each other. A true friend is someone who lets you have total freedom to be yourself - and especially to feel. Or, not feel. Whatever you happen to be feeling at the moment is fine with them. That's what real love amounts to - letting a person be what he really is.True friends are linked heart to heart without any social media. 



Special one or the Right One with whom you can share your life with another, when his/her happiness is the only thing you want . Falling in love may be one of the greatest feelings ever. Relationships are the spice of life. They make us feel alive in a way that nothing else can. Two individuals showing care for each other by doing small acts for each other that demonstrate love and affection.Love is a force more formidable than any other. It is invisible - it cannot be seen or measured, yet it is powerful enough to transform you in a moment, and offer you more joy than any material possession could.Trust , understanding , faith , support , care is important . To find true love is difficult . A person who when looks into your eyes & say that everything gonna be alright and is always beside you to support you anytime , anywhere & by anything .

“Darkness cannot drive out darkness: only light can do that. Hate cannot drive out hate: only love can do that.”





Tuesday, 12 August 2014

More Than A Feeling


There is a child inside every individual even when they grow up . This child behavior is shown in front of someone whom they are comfortable with or with the person whom they trust . Trusting your family because they know exactly what you are & yes they will always care for you no matter what . Having somebody to trust is a wonderful feeling. Knowing that you have somebody to talk to about anything you might have going on in your life is great. The feeling of being trusted might possibly be one of the best feelings you will ever know. It is great when you can help somebody when you are trusted just by having a talk with them about something they need help with or need advice on . All the world is made of faith, and trust, and pixie dust . As a small child, I felt in my heart two contradictory feelings, the horror of life and the ecstasy of life.

Emotions & feelings are central to our life . They helps us to balance our life .Being emotional has its own positive as well as negative effects . I have the bad habit of thinking too much . It is said that silence speaks more than words , I agree sometimes its true . But when feelings are not valued then its better to bottle them up somewhere inside you . So what you follow : head or heart ??

“You can close your eyes to the things you do not want to see, but you cannot close your heart to the things you do not want to feel."

Inner feeling - Intuition is knowing without knowing why you know , ability to connect with our inner self . It is commonly referred to as the sixth sense, a gut feeling which we feel to be correct though its hard to prove it . I didn't believed in intuitions until something happened with me that made me clear with this fact that intuitions are strong . There are different types of thoughts that arises in our mind .  

" Thoughts without intuitions are empty, intuitions without concepts are blind." 

Watch your thoughts for they become words.
Watch your words for they become actions.
Watch your actions for they become habits.
Watch your habits for they become your character.





Monday, 11 August 2014

Ghost ride............


One bright day she woke up , rubbing her eyes & after she tapped her alarm clock with one eye open she went to the washroom for brushing her teeth . She again took a 5 minute nap such a lazy brat she was . Then comes her mom shouting " Wake up !! dear . Come down & have your breakfast . " She got ready , came downstairs & gave a biscuit to her dog . Then she had her breakfast & headed towards her work after saying goodbye to her parents & tuffy .

She was very innocent , fun loving , friendly , caring . After coming from school , she watered her plants . She played with her dog " tuffy !! Come here . take this & run " she felt very good when he obeys her as if he is talking to her & understands whatever she says .

"Mom , I will be late . I am going to a birthday party . " she said .
"Ok . Take Care of yourself . " said her mother .

She purchased a gift & went to Neha's house . They enjoyed a lot . Friends , food , dance , soft drinks , cake all together gave a good feeling . Aftre the party , she went back home .
( Ting Tong ! Ting Tong !  bell rang . )

Tuffy came near the door & sniffed . When she came inside , he ran towards her .

" How was the party ? " inquired her mother .
" Fantabulous ! " she exclaimed with joy .
" Dad . Can we go on a long drive today ? Please . "
( She pleaded until he said yes . So they went on a long drive and at midnight when they were coming back home they saw something shocking . )

" Wait.........Wait ........ ! There is a barat going . see how they are dancing hahahaha ! " said she .
( Its 3 a.m. & marriage , this time ?? questions were going in her dad's mind )
When they passed that barat , suddenly the noise of music stoped . They turned back & saw that all the people that were dancing vanished .

" Omg !! Dad . something is fishy here . Increase your speed . " screamed she in a low voice .
( Inside she was repeating mantras & was very scared )

They got relaxed only when they reached home .
The subject of ghosts and evil spirits intrigues almost everyone. It is true that some people have been attacked by malevolent spirits. It is usually due to the person being afraid of what the spirit can do to him or her. Attacks happen when the evil spirit believes that it can overpower or bully a person.They necessarily don’t want to harm people.

"If you want to learn about spirits’ behaviour, look into your eyes and ask yourself, how would you behave when you are stuck emotionally and mentally in a place without a physical body."

Wednesday, 6 August 2014

Away from home

THINGS YOU WILL LEARN WHEN YOU ARE AWAY FROM HOME


Leaving home for work or studies always seems like an adventure but you later realize that home is home . 
Nothing is more comfortable than your bed
No environment suites you than your own room
Nothing is more yummy than mom's hand food
No one is more caring than your father
Nothing is more entertaining than your dog's play

1. You realize that your hometown is much closer to your heart than you ever thought . 

You start missing your home & just wanted to go to your place whenever possible . 


2. You start valuing money and appreciate what you already have .

You start managing everything & you become satisfied with what you have . You realize value of everything .


3. You learn all sorts of management skills


You are alone , away from your home your family your comfort zone so you have to become adaptable & have to become manager of your own . You have to manage things alone .


4. You learn to solve your own problems

No one comes at your beck & call so you have to make decisions of your own & you have to find solutions to your problems by your own .


5. You become independent: cooking, cleaning & taking care of yourself

You become independent . Keeping your clothes clean , having your meals at time & you have to take care of yourself .




6. You start to enjoy travelling
You like to travel to new places & likes to explore things .
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7. You become more responsible

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8. Although you have the freedom to party like crazy, you start doing it responsibly

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9. You meet new people who challenge your opinions..

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..and it helps develop your own.You make new friends , new connections .

10. You learn how to deal with the real world. You get to know the true faces of people

You better be aware of double face people . Believe in genuineness of a person rather than falseness .
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11, You start valuing your relationships more

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because the quality of your life is the quality of your relationships.

12. There is nothing warmer than a mother’s hug..

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..and nothing truer than your father’s words

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13. And when you finally earn and manage on your own, it makes you feel proud..

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..and your parents prouder

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14. It’s only then that you realize you have finally grown up!

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Maturity is not when we start speaking about big things, it’s when we start understanding the small things. And putting up on your own teaches exactly that.



Monday, 4 August 2014

Destiny

“One love, one heart, one destiny.” 



In our course of life , we meet so many people but only few of them leaves a strong impression on us .  People don't cross our path by accident but there is a reason behind everything that happens . We meet people we are destined to meet , we talk to them , we share our thoughts , we made the bond of our friendship stronger . Let us follow our destiny, ebb and flow. Whatever may happen, we master fortune by accepting it  .

You cannot know what light is , if you have not experienced darkness . You couldn't taste happiness if you have not tasted sadness . Right doesn't exist without left . Experience is necessary  . We realize things when we go through it once , when we feel it once . 

We get only one life to live , love & die . Therefore , I pray to almighty that I meet only those people who wont leave me with memories but fulfill their promise of staying by my side forever & ever . Everything changes but memories remain the same . Like always i will say " Memories never die" . Even if we try to close the chapter , it comes with more force on our mind . 

I don't know how many of you read my blog but there is something inside that pushes me to write ,  so i pick a random topic & continue to write . Hehehehhe !! Coming back to destiny , may i ask how many of us believes in it ?? 


People prepare so hard for competitive exams but only some get selected & remaining ones say we worked hard but may be it wasn't in my destiny . There is something known as destiny that plays a vital role  .  The very course of event that I have described will most likely happen to somebody in the world . Their destiny will not be something they chose .   Lets see how our kismat connection works out including how many people we meet , depart & then make our bond stronger with . 


The factors that form a person's fate : 


A person's fate is decided by a complex combination of conditions and factors. Some of them are already decided at the time of a person’s birth and some of them come into play later and shape the course further. As we all know, Romeo and Juliet is a tragic story of romance. Romeo and Juliet's death was a result of many misfortunes, but they were mostly victims of the society in which they lived, malignant fate, and their own passions. Thus, fate is undoubtedly the most responsible influence for the couple's heartbreaking tragedy.

Thursday, 31 July 2014

Hinglish Post :p HOSTEL FUN




Life me hostel k din ek baar jeena chahiye
Ye cheese miss nahi kerni chahiye  ,
Subah late se jaagna
aur fir college k liye bhagna .  

Free lecture me aa k room me sona
mess ka khana dekh k ghar ki yaad aana , 
phate hue jokes maarna
aur fir "Hasna tha " ye bolker zor se hasna . 

Vo mid night maggi ka taste
jaha ek spoon b na jata waste .
Raat me kisika b darwaza knock kerk bhaagne ka fun
aur " result aa gya " aisa kehne k baad sabka udha hua expression .

Vo dosto k B'day ki raat
jiski rehti h bahut ultimate baat , 
face me cake ka massage toh hota hi h
B'day bumps k sath water fight b hoti h .

Full volume pe gana bajana 
aur chilla k sath me khud k effects daalna ,
Khub pics khichwana
aur fir sath me sAbka dance krna .

Aamne - samne baith k watsapp kerna
different smileys k sath khelna ,
Hostel - Our second home
titled home away from home .

Asli maza toh DJ night me aata h 
jb let it rain over me bajta h , 
Lungi dance me SRK  ka step kerna 
aur dhatin nach me shahid ko copy kerne ki koshish kerna .
Yo ! Yo ! Honey Singh !! kehte huye paseena bahana
Aur fir hostel pahuch k thanda pani peena .



DJ NIGHT FUN !!





Tuesday, 29 July 2014

watch it (y)

This a Random blog with Random pics which i thought of sharing with you people as i found some of them really cute & some are funny . So have a look !!




See the face of puppy while he comes up & further out of the box  ( He is like Aaaaaaaaaah !! finally i am out . Now i can breath nicely )  hehehehe !!


How sweet !! A bird is feeding a dog ;) How can you miss this thing :p 


Cat trying to get out of the shoe . Poor cat , think of the smell inside it guys :p 




Animation of vegetables waving with a smile too wide :D 


Wait for the LAST expression of this baby . I bet you can't predict it :p 


Awwwwwwwww!! Last but not the least :p This pic reminds me of my dog when he nods his head :)
# muaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaah # love him :* 





Sunday, 27 July 2014

A creation


It is said that Non - verbal communication is effective than verbal . She was emotional & very expressive . She used facial expressions & body language to express her emotions . So whats wrong in being emotional ?? We are not robots afterall , we are social beings . 

She cared without thinking about receiving anything in return . She expected & got hurt but then she expected again because sometimes we are helpless , we just can't do things that we decided to do . An excellent book that discusses the differences between men and women is called, Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus.  In this book, it states that, “Men and women generally are unaware that they have different emotional needs”.  Women want their feelings to be recognized.  They want to feel loved and appreciated every day.  Their primary emotional needs are caring, understanding, respect, devotion, validation and reassurance.

Life was not easy for her. Some were kind but some were cruel to her . People didn't valued the bond of friendship , they broke the trust , they took everything for granted , they took everything as a joke & played with the feelings but she decided to keep calm & be strong because this virtual world had many real problems . She wept silently as there were very few people who really cared & valued things . There were very few people with whom she could share things & who understood her . 

She believed that “The best and most beautiful things in the world cannot be seen or even touched. They must be felt with the heart”  . So she gave importance to feelings . She tried to bottle up all  her pain & every time  wore a smile . One can be the master of what one does, but never of what one feels so she always followed her heart . Every woman's heart  has different instructions . They are written through her eyes , in her smile , through her actions & in her tears .