Regret

Even if we say that we don't regret things done  words not said, in the end we regret the chances we didn't take . Past haunts all of us at some points of our lives . We get flashbacks even if we don't want to memorize anything . 

It is said we should not live in our past , we should be in present things move on blah blahh ......................!! Yes , this is true but  how many of us can forget our past completely ,Have you ever think of it ?? Dude , who wants to stick to their past ?? No one i guess but ................ ( yes again this but comes in between )

Sometimes we regret things not done when we have the chance to do it , Life is all about choices - some we regret & some we are proud of . Regret is the worst emotion of human . Sometimes we have a very bad habit of thinking too much , we over-think things which makes things difficult for us . 

Knowing the truth
Seeing the truth but
Still believing the lies ............!! 
Because you trust & think that someday the truth will be told by that person itself . Hurt with the truth but never comfort someone with a lie . 

VERY TRUE ......!! 

brain drain

We were born in INDIA  . Right ?

We take oath in our childhood by saying "India is my country , I love my country ................ " . Right ?
We sing our national anthem "Jana Gana Mana ........ " in chorus . Right ??

Then what is the need of migrating from India to another country when we have spend our childhood here , we have completed our studies here , just because they give us more money we leave our country & get ready to serve other countries . Is this right ?  

Brain Drain simple means to emigration of intelligent well-educated individuals to somewhere for better living status.According to me Brain Drain affects a nation's economy since skilled, intelligent people migrate to other countries, some people migrate for their passion on studies and research and some people for welfare of their lives. Latter want to make money and settle soon, which is not possible in India.

We Indians have potential in us .We are more intelligent & if we don't leave our country then India can achieve more in the coming years , it can become more developed .

Just take a very common situation,if your own house is not clean then you will clean your house or you will start living in your neighbors house ? Obviously , you will prefer cleaning your house because you are comfortable in your own place than any other so why to go to other place when we have our own motherland . Hence , brain drain should be stopped . We should serve our country leaving our greed behind.

It goes on n on n on ....................................

Sometimes life makes you stand in those situations where you are unable to decide what to do , situations where you are helpless .If there is someone who accepts you & is always with you in your good as well as bad times then that individual will be considered yours . 

Family isn't always blood relations. It's the people in your life, who want you in theirs. The ones who accept and respect you. The ones who want to see you smile and who love you, no matter what. The ones who care for you and are always ready to help you. 

 Life is unfair sometimes !! Some decisions are very hard to make .Trusting wrong people can make things upside down.People starts ignoring you instead of holding your hand & saying things will be alright . Sometimes there are no hands to wipe off your tears , you yourself have to be strong & should try to understand that your day will come one day . 

Some people are never forgotten

Some mistakes are never forgiven

Some misunderstanding are never solved

Some memories never die

Some things never gets healed up !!

IS THIS TRUE ??

Random Facts about me !!

Here comes one of the blogger challenge & i accept it.

1* I love CHOCOLATES . (  Whenever i eat choco fudge , I ask him to put three times more chocolate sauce in it to make it more delicious & yummylicious :p )

2* I am very fond of PETS . ( Dogs , fishes .   Dogs are so loving & friendly !! Its fun to put our hand inside the fish pot , fishes come & bite our fingers  :D )

3* I am a lil EMO type but i take this as my strength  . ( Who isn't emotional ? Insaan h robot thodi , emotions toh honge hi na ;) )

4* There is a CHILD within me which comes out at times . It is said we should never lose that child inside us so that we can stay young forever . ( Sometimes its good to be bad :p Everytime serious rehna makes you boring . Sometimes my friends say " tu unique piece hai " .  )

5* I like SIMPLE & sweet things . ( Small things matter a lot to me )

6* Being ANGRY is not my cup of tea but once i am in angry mode , i can break anything that comes before my sight .

7* I like WRITING & listening to music . ( Blogging is fun ;) . Type of music depends upon my mood )

8*  My wild fantasy is to touch a TIGER .( Imagine a selfie with a tiger . Wow !! Thailand i am coming . :D )

9* I want to explore the WORLD . ( Astronaut bun jati toh but i am not lucky enough to get the  golden opportunity to visit those great planets :p Hehe !! )

10* I believe MEMORIES never die . ( We all have past & if we be honest with ourselves sometimes we get flashbacks from our past . Even if we want to backspace & enter , we are unable to delete things from our data . )

11* I am a kinda lazy lad . ( 5 minutes nap of mine increments to an hour )

12* Judge me yourself , don't go by rumors . My eyes & expressions speak more than my words.

13* I hate people who dominate each other . ( I mean why to dominate ? Can't we live a balanced life ? )

14* I say SORRY when i really mean it otherwise not .

                     "Never stop learning because life never stops teaching."


  

BiG Dilemma .....!!

"Life is from B - D : From Birth to Death .
But between B & D , C comes that stands for Choices ."

Our life is the matter of our choice , choices that we make by ourselves . But what if we go wrong sometimes , we take wrong ways & turns in our path . Should we keep regretting what we have done & what we should have did in our past or should just move in the flow ? ?

CHOICE , CHANCE , CHANGE .....!! Even when we choose to change then also memories stay , we might take many chances but in the end it doesn't even matter . We are hanged between what to do & what not to do ??

Things seem to b very simple but in reality they are not at all simple , they seem to b like a spider web where we are trapped . Whenever we try to solve 1 question , 2 more questions are ready for us .
We have to believe this : Whatever happens has a reason behind it & everything happens for good . Everything is written in our destiny & in this merry go round we are not alone but there are many people like us in this .

Sometimes we regret the chances we didn't take . Just be yourself , Life is too short to b someone else.People who truly love you will accept you , the real you . The world is not what it seems , people have two faces - just don,t know how do they manage to do this .
So guys stop thinking & do things that you want . Decide things according to you not someone else . Be with someone who can take any risk to have you & be with you . 
Live & Let others Live . You gotta start somewhere .......... !!

different locations with interesting things

Antarctica's Blood Red Waterfall 

 Waterfall which appears to be of red color . Once it might scare you but it is something unique.

 There are 2 main places in Thailand that you can get up close and personal with a real life tiger.The Tiger Temple and the Tiger Kingdom.

The Tiger Kingdom is a much better establishment. The tigers have modern amenities, trainers that obviously care for them and they are well taken care of. I would love to visit this place if i got a chance to do so .

Up in the air paragliding over Manali , Himachal Pradesh . If you do so in seconds you will have your adrenaline rush & you will be spellbound by the spectacular sight you will behold. 

How often does one boast about walking on a frozen river in a dreamlike destination? Stamped as one of the most thrilling experiences for an adventure aficionado, the Chadar trek route connects villages in the Zanskar valley deep in the mountains with Chilling and the frozen Zanskar River.

Every Mother

No language can express the power , beauty , heroism & majesty of mothers love. She is caring , protective , loving & always wants good for their children. A mother understands what a child does not say.
Let me start with "Mother Earth" . She takes care of every individual by revolving & rotating in fixed intervals . She is the home for many . She only gives & doesn't expects anything in return.The Earth has music for those who listen.

“A mother is the truest friend we have, when trials heavy and sudden fall upon us; when adversity takes the place of prosperity; when friends desert us; when trouble thickens around us, still will she cling to us, and endeavor by her kind precepts and counsels to dissipate the clouds of darkness, and cause peace to return to our hearts.”

Even in Wild Animals like Lionesses of the same pride raise cubs together.The lionesses not only groom their own cubs and provide food and safety, they do so for the other lion cubs as well. She hunt & first give that to king of the jungle to feed , she is very protective towards her cubs . Sometimes she fights with lion to protect her cubs . That strong mother doesn't tell her cub, Son, stay weak so the wolves can get you. She says, Toughen up, this is reality we are living in.

I saw a hen with her little chickens under her feathers in this winter , there was no shelter for her but then also she was providing heat to them . I was amazed to see that she was covering 5-6 chickens under her wings . Similarly Birds also make their nest with great effort & the feed their children first , they protect their children until they learn flying .

Hence not only human beings but also wild animals , birds care & protect their children . Whether they are awake at night nursing a baby, spending their time and money on less-than-grateful teenagers, or preparing meals, moms continuously put others before themselves. Sometimes in hostel i miss my mom badly , even her scoldings  . She always cared if i didn't had my meal & in that case i always got my favorite dish ready infront of me. she is the one who knows whats going on my mind & can read my face easily . 

P.S. Love you mom <3 :D

Hundreds of dewdrops to greet the dawn,
Hundreds of bees in the purple clover,
Hundreds of butterflies on the lawn,
But only one mother the wide world over.

Chilling W!nTers

"Snow was falling,
so much like stars
filling the dark trees
that one could easily imagine
its reason for being was nothing more
than prettiness.” 

In Delhi this time , weather is so freezing . It's getting colder day by day . All of us enjoy sleeping inside blankets . I remember , in my school days i used to make many excuses to stay back at home . Ice-cream in winters is enjoyed completely even if we end up sneezing at last . Today i came across new thing - pan in which ice ball was rolled . Imagine how delicious it will be in chilling winters !!

Winter is the time for comfort, for good food and warmth, for the touch of a friendly hand and for a talk beside the fire . Its the time when we all sit in sun for hours without feeling hot , no trace of sweat . Makke ki Roti & Sarso ka Saag aaaaaah !! yummmy !! Hot Chocolate  fudge or hot Gulabjamun . 

October extinguished itself in a rush of howling winds and driving rain and November arrived, cold as frozen iron, with hard frosts every morning and icy drafts that bit at exposed hands and faces. December includes celebration of Christmas & New Year.

Recalling days of my school days , i remember that we used to wait for our winter vacations every year so that we can enjoy Christmas & New year nicely . Christmas was celebrated on a very large scale in my school . Santa used to give us chocolates & how can i forget the yummy chocolate cake . Yes , before enjoying all these we were told stories related to Christmas - its significance etc .
And celebration always ended up with song " We all wish you Merry Christmas & a very happy new year ".

“Spring passes and one remembers one's innocence.
Summer passes and one remembers one's exuberance.
Autumn passes and one remembers one's reverence.
Winter passes and one remembers one's perseverance.”

Then comes the New Year . New questions to be asked, embraced, and loved. Answers to be discovered and then lived in this transformative year of delight and self-discovery. Resolutions are made every year but very few of us follow them . 

lonely night

Alone sat a little girl
along the river side at night
listening to the sound of waves
watching the twinkling stars

All of a sudden she starts weeping
lost in her thoughts
surrounded by cold breeze
again she looked upon the sky
started talking to herself
"I wish there was an angle with me", she said .

World is not full of good people
her tears were very precious she knew
but she was helpless as they were not controlled
She was having no one to share what she feels
many people are there to share happiness
but only few take part in sad moments

Alone she was sitting in a corner
watching the clouds taking different pattern
in moonlight all things were quiet & calm
"stop crying" , she said to herself
Life was playing games with her
where she was unable to retrace her steps

Sometimes you just don't know
the reason of weeping
tears come by their own
you long for a shoulder to rest on
& a person to tell you things gonna be alright.